christo said:
If true, this is terrible for all involved (victim obviously, families, Beau, Griz community, etc). There is no excuse for this, period. The court process will hopefully take care of this appropriately.
On the other hand, the coaching staff, athletic department, and administration needs to get this stuff figured out. I'm sure that none of the recruiters could've foretold any of these legal issues when they recruited a kid....but something has got to be done soon to avoid this stuff from happening once the kids get here. Too much bad publicity from athletes in the Griz community. As a UM grad, I'm ashamed. Each time stuff like this happens, it gets harder to whole-heartedly recommend UM for my family's or friends' kids to attend. I will always recommend, but it gets more difficult to do it without some reservations.
And if Beau did this, I hope he is prosecuted to the full extent of the law.
I agree we need prosecute all involved. The football team needs to be cleaned up. With that said I fear the team may just be the tip of an ice berg, the part that is visable easist to address, while the bigger part is harder to see and deal with. The morals and values in our society right now scare me and Montana is not isolated and insulated from the bad (inspite of the opinion posted in the Missoulian). The shock that many of us feel or felt in the past is not there for many when they hear of or see things happening now. Maybe desensitized by the daily news reports, video games, movies, TV shows, the mass spread of anything on the internet, I don't know, maybe it is all starting to seem normal that it is just part of life and what people do. More and more our society and the world is becoming more egocentric. Self is all that matters. Listen to your kids talk to their friends. Many do not trust anyone and think everyone is out to do bad. They really do not like others and are more and more isolated. (Maybe from being Bullied in school. The Boys will be Boys or it is what middle school and high school Girls do attitude as a down play of behavior is not good.) From our Male side we are suppose to look out for our Ladies. But it seems to be becoming a lost value. How can they learn it when they sit on their beds, with headphones and mics on their head, and their social contact is through a violent video game. (This was my son and his friends the same age as Beau). Sex to many is not a big deal and not really something special. It should be.
To defend someone by saying they are a good person is weak at best. How do we know what is really inside the minds of another. How many major criminals when caught have had people who knew them shocked by what they did. The football team needs to be cleaned up.....but the bigger job will take much longer and needs to address much more parts of our community and society.