Raider said:
Ooooh! Or what? You'll leave? :roll: :lol
I've been around eGriz for a long time, in one username or another. Not as long as you have, but you have come off negatively, IMO. I see the username 'Raider' and UGH! I tune you OUT. Here's a quote, and some advice from a third party. I know, take your advice and stick it, right? That's you. Pity.
https://reflectandrespond.com/dont-raise-your-voice-improve-your-argument/
“Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.” --DESMOND TUTU
"Well as much as arguing sounds like a bad thing, it actually can be a good thing as the opportunity can help us improve.
Its natural for us to always want to win the fight or argument, right? Well when trying to “win,” we tend to try and dominate the other person by showing that we are bigger, or louder. This isn’t a good thing! Instead of trying to be super dominant, we should try to prove our argument’s validity and use real evidence to prove that we are right.
Let’ say if you and I get into an argument on which ice cream flavor is more popular … and you say chocolate and I say vanilla.
Instead of fighting we can try to prove to each other why each of us is right with a better argument or even better backed by some fact or data.
I encourage you next time you find your self in such a situation, to take a pause and reflect.
Calmly try to make people understand your perspective and you relate to their as well."
