horribilisfan8184 said:
So you missed the part where I said learn Krav Maga so you can defend yourself or others who are being bullied? So many cowards giving advice here. No wonder bullying is rising in the face of all the passive policies.
Let me say this as nice as possible but not nearly as nice as Elrod. Admit you’re wrong and shut the fu ck up. I don’t normally go off like this but bullying is a very serious subject to me. You are obviously so out of touch with the reality of bullying today, it should be embarrassing to anyone who knows you and is reading your posts. Your point #1 is an absolute joke. You think giving a witty or kind comment back to a bully is all of a sudden gonna make them all like “oh, I’m sorry, we should be friends”. If this wasn’t the saddest thing I’ve heard, I’d be laughing hysterically at it. My high school years were absolutely miserable because of about 5 kids on the football team that started calling me fudge packer during freshman summer practices cus I was a packers fan and my response for 4 years was smile and turn the other cheek. Eventually most of all of Big Sky high knew me as fudge packer. Being 4’10” and 89 pounds as a freshman in high school obviously made me an easy target to the 5 kids who were all close to 6 foot or taller and much bigger than me. When that “defense”(still not laughing cus I can’t believe someone would say something so idiotic) doesn’t work, you say physical violence is then the answer? A classmate of my 6th grade daughter was so fed up with being called fat, ugly, and poor on a daily basis by her multiple bullies, that she finally attacked one and broke her arm. Now she’s kicked out of that school and is forced to go to an inner city school that specializes in schooling troubled kids. Think she’s better off for finally fighting back? Well you’re so ignorant on this issue, you probably do. Meanwhile the bullies at my daughters school just find new victims to verbally abuse on a daily basis. To me it’s no wonder why events like Columbine happen when this kids feel there is no other way to defend themselves and in their young mentally unstable minds, feel resorting to ultra violence is the answer.
I’m not saying there is an answer for what is a true epidemic to our youth cus kids are the meanest people on earth and there are so many ways to make a bully like an abusive father or very mean older siblings. But your answers are so ridiculous and so far off the mark that you just need to quit. You’re wrong on so many levels.