The victim should call the shots. It's their life as opposed to some journalist who is motivated by "if it bleeds, it leads." In MT, the right to privacy is a fundamental right, much like freedom of speech. The difference is the right to privacy extends into private sectors, and should therefore trump in this situ.
Imagine if this were a rape story instead of a fight. Would the Kaimin still run the story even if the woman asked not to draw more attention to herself? I sure hope not.
Finally, someone pm'd me and stressed that Bobby didn't call the victim (or his family). It was vise versa. If true, that seems to kill the Kaimin's theory. Not only did they get the facts wrong, but it appears that Bobby wasn't trying to sweep this under the rug, rather he was respecting their wishes.