So, if I got this right, If a girl tells you she will give it to you even though you are thinking about getting together with another and you have sex with said girl then you are a predator. I doubt JJ knew she was disturbed as Paoli pointed out as he is not a psychologist. And what does it say of her that she is stringing along a boyfriend from the past while hooking up with JJ?tnt said:GrizPony said:Was she looking for sex when she said she would do him anytime the night before? You have to be a little more balanced to hide your agenda. Truly.
Dunno, didn't hear that in the trial but even if it did happen, was what she got the next night what she looking for? The fact is the trial has proven clearly that the discussion 75 and I had months ago was the closest thing to truth on these boards. If the picture Paoli painted of a seriously disturbed woman with obvious problems before the "act" is true, then JJ who seriously pursuing a relationship with another going to that house that night was indeed predatory.
Balanced? What needs to be balanced? JJ screwed up his life and a lot of others for a quick bang. It was and is stupid. And no matter which "side" (that seems to be more important to one than the other) is right the damage is done and permanent.
Finally, I feel sorry for some of you morally superior a$$holes who must have been to busy studying the bible and volunteering at the church instead of out having fun in high school and college so that you now feel that you are of such high character you can stand in judgement of this young man and his character. Because the rest of us were out drinking and chasing ass.