MS, PhD = 7 years. Started business after graduation. Not sure what about this completely normal timeline confuses you.
Stanford and Cal will not go back to the PAC until it is literally their only remaining option. If you think they're even considering it, you have bad intel, probably because you - as you said - are mostly talking to older donors, which makes sense, because you're old. You're apparently out of touch with the real movers and shakers nowadays, but who cares? Your ego sends you into these insane pissy tirades anytime someone disagrees with you. Also, no, the PAC is not anywhere near a P5, despite your confusion.