Harsh reality?
I suppose when a program and a team induces a bright-eyed 17 year old kid to change his whole life for it on the offer of a scholarship and a chance to "play the game," and then yank it without a play, yeah that qualifies as a "harsh reality" and don't expect the survivors and his friends on the team to take speeches about loyalty, honor and integrity all that seriously the next time coach wants to offer an inspiring moment. Or their high school coaches next time you come calling. The word gets out, "loyalty is not a two way street."
On the other hand, we cut 15 players after spring camp. Nobody seemed to concerned about "harsh realities" then. Is cutting two now, pretending you didn't at an angry press conference, then announcing that there will be more later "something new?"
I think everyone expects cuts. Jack Welch cut the bottom 10% every year at GE. It's the only way to move forward.
But, there can be a price to pay. Depends on the "how." Not sure why this week made such an uproar when nobody offered much of a peep last spring.
I suppose it may be the "anger" element. A coach earning $300,000 is angry and even indignant about the way his decision was mangled, to summarily chop off an 18 year old kid who pledged his college career to your care, and earned nothing for the privilege?
There's a bigger world out there, of parents, taxpayers, donors, students and recruits. Appearances are important. Angry petulant coaches blaming the media for his problems don't sell well. Reading other reactions elsewhere, I see that was a take-away by most observers.
That's a "harsh reality."