I played 3 sports in high school, football for 4 years in college, 1 year of college lacrosse, and some rugby each of my 4 years in college. I then played rugby until I was in my 50's. So, yes, I have played organized sports. How about you? What's your resume? I'd guess my experience, competitiveness, and desire and ability to win are a lot higher than yours. Not sure what your point is. Competition and winning includes a lot more than team cohesion. Attitude of being content? What's that coming from?