Ursa Major said:
PlayerRep said:
cclarkblues said:
If a donor pulls his gifts because of who the choice of coach is, I question whether they are a very good fan to begin with. People should want the best for the program and that doesn't always mean everyone gets what they want. If they decide not to give, I imagine the school will carry on and likely someone else will step up.
We don't even know who the coach is for sure at this time anyway.
Looks like you never played the game of giving or asking for a multi-million dollar donation. It would seem to be awkward to ask for a huge donation from someone who just asked that X be hired as the coach, when Y got the job. Maybe it's just me. Maybe I'm just imaging that people with tons of money are sort of used of getting their way. Maybe they just say, hey, no big deal that you didn't listen to me, how much do you need?
I have. The last thing that major donors want now days is a kiss-ass, groveling, phony development person. The times have changed, PR. It's not awkward at all, you stick to your strategy and mission and show how devoted and resolute you are to your plan. That's how you build confidence with your donor. You have them "buy into your plan" not the other way around. Most big donors get that. You've obviously never played the game...
The two of you are really really out of touch with the real world of major fundraising. You've obviously never dealt with the real true kiss-ass groveling phony baloney fundraising. Talk about cry-babies with major egos, over-bloated bankers who dont give a whit, player issues over the smallest things, coaches and assistant coaches that love the ultimate backstabbing, the parents with no sense of self control, in-laws and relatives standing around with a sense of entitlement, and talk about players that bring a huge posse to the game.... you two should walk in my shoes when I'm out hustling nickles and dimes for Little League. :shock: