NativeGriz said:
tnt said:
GoldStandardGriz said:
Ummm.....Brian Ah Yat, Raul Pacheco, & Kelley Bryant ring a bell?
Yup they sure do. I don't suppose you remember a guy by the name of steve valentine that worked with a number of players at that time as an unofficial chaplain to keep the Tommy Lee recruits here. The ones that stayed did well others got homesick and left........
So what you are saying is the right staff knows how to keep quality people around despite being homesick etc.
One would have to define quality players. If you have one wanting to quit every year or quit if things don't go his way, its likely someone is gonna say don't let the door hit you in the butt on the way out. I suppose we can come up with a way to make everybody feel like they are a starter, but usually those who work the hardest and have the most success get the job anyway. Nothing changes things up faster than being successful. If we have highly successful players leaving then we have a problem. If we have a player making "out of school comments" on social media about coach or staff he needs to find the door really quick whether hes right or not. MD is old enough to be of the school to say "gee thanks for your input now get your ass the hell out here, no one is irreplaceable'
I"m not sure when college football coaches started to have to ask "are you feeling okay about yourself" should we all hold hands and sing kumbaya now?
Those kids were all involved in a Church program started back in the Grady Bennett Days. The staff involvement was Don reads encouragement to participate. Steve Valentine (if I have the name right) was local Pastor and former Olympian.
When a kids visions of grandeur and athletic stardom are dashed, that's hardly the staffs problem. All four of the kids who left never rose to the level they were at in High school. Its gotta be hard going from Star to 2, 3, or worse on the depth chart. Others grow up and realize 30 hours a week of hard work year round for a few minutes of play time (or in the case of a BU QB no play time) prolly isn't worth it. If the kid is a serious student probably less so. Of course there are other rewards than playing on Sat, but even those come into question.