indian-outlaw
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Funny! Your wife must be one hell of a sport to put up with you. :lol: :clap:Growler1 said:Hell, my wife has said that many times over the years, and I go for it anyway!
Funny! Your wife must be one hell of a sport to put up with you. :lol: :clap:Growler1 said:Hell, my wife has said that many times over the years, and I go for it anyway!
indian-outlaw said:Funny! Your wife must be one hell of a sport to put up with you. :lol: :clap:Growler1 said:Hell, my wife has said that many times over the years, and I go for it anyway!
ilovethecats said:something else that has annoyed me in all of this....
if this chick truly is making all this up, and if she consented and all the other stuff we're hearing as a possibility...why would she have admitted so much? why would she have told them things like she took off her shirt or that she said "not tonight" implying that other nights it was fine? seems like if she was going to put herself out there and risk her own well-being, she'd go all out.
again...i'm just thinking out loud. seems like she was very smart in getting sympathy rather than making up an elaborate story about how she was brutally raped. i think her story tends to sound credible when she admits to things like this that clearly will get her blasted pretty good as she already has on this board.
Grizbacker1 said:If the rumors about her promiscuity are even close to accurate she has some serious self image problems and sleeps around trying to make her feel better about herself, only to realize later that way of thinking doesn't work, the guys just want sex, no relationship, and now she is bitter
ilovethecats said:Grizbacker1 said:If the rumors about her promiscuity are even close to accurate she has some serious self image problems and sleeps around trying to make her feel better about herself, only to realize later that way of thinking doesn't work, the guys just want sex, no relationship, and now she is bitter
i agree to a point backer. but we have all known some pretty loose women over the years. still doesn't mean they are free to be raped. and i'm not implying that is what you were saying.
i'll go a step farther and say this could help her too. let's say the rumors are true and she is one of the biggest sluts on campus. apparently everyone knows this. the basketball team. the football team. message boards. and likely many others if all these people know. she obviously doesn't care that she is viewed this way. so for her to come out and admit that she agreed to make out, she agreed to take off her shirt, and then she told him to stop...i think she actually gains credibility in this scenario.
gonna be interesting to see how this all unfolds.
grizpsych said:I really can't believe I have to point this out. If the girl is known to have sex with UM's star athletes then JJ would be another notch on her bedpost rather than going to court. Frankly, this point of view makes JJ look worse, not better.
tourist said:grizpsych said:I really can't believe I have to point this out. If the girl is known to have sex with UM's star athletes then JJ would be another notch on her bedpost rather than going to court. Frankly, this point of view makes JJ look worse, not better.
JJ will get his day in court. So will the accuser. Lets see that bedpost, Exhibit A. Rape victim or camp follower. Remember, fall CAMP starts Monday.
grizpsych said:I really can't believe I have to point this out. If the girl is known to have sex with UM's star athletes then JJ would be another notch on her bedpost rather than going to court. Frankly, this point of view makes JJ look worse, not better.
Grizbacker1 said:well, for the record I am not saying what will happen if this even makes it to court.
grizpsych said:tourist said:grizpsych said:I really can't believe I have to point this out. If the girl is known to have sex with UM's star athletes then JJ would be another notch on her bedpost rather than going to court. Frankly, this point of view makes JJ look worse, not better.
JJ will get his day in court. So will the accuser. Lets see that bedpost, Exhibit A. Rape victim or camp follower. Remember, fall CAMP starts Monday.
For the first time tourist I completely agree with you. :thumb:
BDizzle said:grizpsych said:I really can't believe I have to point this out. If the girl is known to have sex with UM's star athletes then JJ would be another notch on her bedpost rather than going to court. Frankly, this point of view makes JJ look worse, not better.
I do agree to an extent. It is weird that a girl who supposedly sleeps around would all of a sudden say somebody raped her. Maybe she thought she could win the star QB over and when he hit it and quit it she got pissed. Looking at it from another point of view. Why would JJ, the star QB, a guy that has plenty of girls and guys saying he is a great guy, who has no problem getting action when he wants it, force himself onto a girl. Maybe he was drunk and horny and thought she was an easy lay. And when she said NO he didn't believe her because he heard the stories, or experienced her being all about it earlier.
This is going to be an interesting case for the jury, if it even goes to a jury. If it does go to court I have a feeling JJ went testify. As somebody mentioned earlier, JJ is gone and will never be the QB at the University of Montana again.
grizpsych said:BDizzle said:grizpsych said:I really can't believe I have to point this out. If the girl is known to have sex with UM's star athletes then JJ would be another notch on her bedpost rather than going to court. Frankly, this point of view makes JJ look worse, not better.
I do agree to an extent. It is weird that a girl who supposedly sleeps around would all of a sudden say somebody raped her. Maybe she thought she could win the star QB over and when he hit it and quit it she got pissed. Looking at it from another point of view. Why would JJ, the star QB, a guy that has plenty of girls and guys saying he is a great guy, who has no problem getting action when he wants it, force himself onto a girl. Maybe he was drunk and horny and thought she was an easy lay. And when she said NO he didn't believe her because he heard the stories, or experienced her being all about it earlier.
This is going to be an interesting case for the jury, if it even goes to a jury. If it does go to court I have a feeling JJ went testify. As somebody mentioned earlier, JJ is gone and will never be the QB at the University of Montana again.
Let's look at it from a male's perspective, as the victim. First, let me get this out of the way. You can't rape the willing (ha ha, okay, we'll move on).
If I could I would be the most promiscuous human on the face of the planet. However, there are still times when I'm not into sex. In this scenario, If I had some girl over to my place, she was all over me, and I wasn't into it, I would feel victimized if she zipped my pants down and forced me to have sex. Even if everyone else got a piece of me doesn't mean that I'm an all you can eat buffet.
From your other point of view, some people change when they are drunk, some people hide their true self from their friends, family, and themselves. We all wear masks, and many of them. Some of my masks are ugly (e.g., my Egriz mask is not always the best person). In other words, who knows what JJ's preferences are in bed. That sense that you could have every girl because your the star quarterback may have worked against him here.
And again, maybe she has another motive. However, it is kind of hard to figure out how her current behavior has lead to more reward than punishment, for her.
ilovethecats said:umm....this thread has really taken a turn.
and dizzle,,,,give it a go sometime. you'll have fun. :idea:
BDizzle said:grizpsych said:BDizzle said:grizpsych said:I really can't believe I have to point this out. If the girl is known to have sex with UM's star athletes then JJ would be another notch on her bedpost rather than going to court. Frankly, this point of view makes JJ look worse, not better.
I do agree to an extent. It is weird that a girl who supposedly sleeps around would all of a sudden say somebody raped her. Maybe she thought she could win the star QB over and when he hit it and quit it she got pissed. Looking at it from another point of view. Why would JJ, the star QB, a guy that has plenty of girls and guys saying he is a great guy, who has no problem getting action when he wants it, force himself onto a girl. Maybe he was drunk and horny and thought she was an easy lay. And when she said NO he didn't believe her because he heard the stories, or experienced her being all about it earlier.
This is going to be an interesting case for the jury, if it even goes to a jury. If it does go to court I have a feeling JJ went testify. As somebody mentioned earlier, JJ is gone and will never be the QB at the University of Montana again.
Let's look at it from a male's perspective, as the victim. First, let me get this out of the way. You can't rape the willing (ha ha, okay, we'll move on).
If I could I would be the most promiscuous human on the face of the planet. However, there are still times when I'm not into sex. In this scenario, If I had some girl over to my place, she was all over me, and I wasn't into it, I would feel victimized if she zipped my pants down and forced me to have sex. Even if everyone else got a piece of me doesn't mean that I'm an all you can eat buffet.
From your other point of view, some people change when they are drunk, some people hide their true self from their friends, family, and themselves. We all wear masks, and many of them. Some of my masks are ugly (e.g., my Egriz mask is not always the best person). In other words, who knows what JJ's preferences are in bed. That sense that you could have every girl because your the star quarterback may have worked against him here.
And again, maybe she has another motive. However, it is kind of hard to figure out how her current behavior has lead to more reward than punishment, for her.
All good points. I'm also confused by him flipping her over. Just seems really weird in my opinion. I guess he is the QB and likes to be behind the center.