NorthEndZoneDan said:
mtgrizrule said:
The dynamics will continue to change. It really stinks that amateur athletics have gotten to this point.
Have you been around Little League lately? The season hasn't even started and I'm already getting overbearing parents chewing on my ass. Unfortunately its part and parcel of coaching any more and it sucks.
I am several years removed from it. You are preaching to the choir here. Not sure if you have been part of the all star process there in Missoula yet. However, that is when things can get nasty. Not sure how it is these days. A lot of effort was done to make sure Southside had as much as possible working for their all star teams. Also God forbid you not selecting certain kids for a team. Parents throw a fit and the coaches are the worse coaches ever. Once a good staff is in place in any league and the results start speaking for themselves, coaches have a little more power are better heard though.
Hate to say it, but I do know some kids were not selected to various all star teams because some coaches or presidents did not want to deal with certain parents. We found it best to be candid with the parents, and tell them their child is deserving of being on an all star team, but with that were expectations of the parents as well. Part of that would not be interfering with the coaches decisions in terms of coaching such as playing time, position, batting order, discipline etc. Fortunately when those few parents found out the league president, and the other all star families were supporting all this, those parents either were all in or told it would be their actions keeping their son from all stars.
Surprisingly enough over several years we only had one set of parents not abide by those expectations of them, after they agreed to them for all stars. Finally their son what more he had to do to play more, we told him we need to meet with his parents. That was a pretty heated discussion with his parents, but after that his parents got on board and had 4 more great years of experiences with their son playing LL.
The trick is for the league president to 100% support the leagues coaches, and lay it all out on the table from the get go. The coaches and president need to communicate these things from the onset of the season every season. We wrote letters, sent emails, and had in person meetings to make sure every parent was aware of how things would be done. I am not sure which league you coach. I do hope you get through it and the league gets better for everyone involved. Thanks for your time and efforts. I know those things go unappreciated by a few too many. :thumb: