Years ago, I was cleaning up the estate of my parents, and I came across some report cards from MY youth. Mine were the traditional A - F type, but my younger brother had this 'other' stuff.
After reading the numerous posts on this thread, there were a few categories which stood out, like a deficient report card:
1) Plays well with others.
2) Communicates emotions and ideas in a respectful way.
3) Resolves conflicts appropriately.
4) Accepts others ideas and feedback.
5) Maintains focus and works independently.
6) Follows classroom/school rules and procedures.
Maybe some of you could grade yourself, and others, on a simple scale, Attained, Needs Work, or Not Attained. Be honest, as you aren't fooling anyone else. You don't have to share your findings. This is only for self improvement.