For people who are concerned about, or want to have some influence over, the future direction of UM athletics, there are various views on the proper approach. You can continue to donate, and say nothing. You can continue to donate, and say something softly. You can can continue to donate, be nice, and try to meet with Engstrom. You can withhold donations--and do either of the above 3 things. Some believe that withholding donations, for now, will encourage Engstrom to make better decisions regarding athletics. Who will be the future head coach and when? Who will be the AD? What negative actions, if any, will be taken against players under the athletic and university codes? I can tell you one thing: if JJ were thrown out without being charged legally, there would be some irritated supporters. How much support will the university provide to athletes? How much money will the university siphon off of athletics in the future? What is Engstrom going to do about tailgating and alcohol?
Note that many athletic donors who are withholding or withdrawing donations/pledges now, are willing to increase their donations to certain things, such as to the qb club or for specific needs. Aslo note that some donors are also withholding donations from the general fund, professional schools, etc.
I am more pessimistic than some. I fear that there is a significant chance that Engstrom's recent and future actions will signficantly and negatively impact UM athletics, as well as the university.