The older one gets -- and I'm well into geezer-hood -- the sadder it always seems when a young person dies, whether in an accident or a catastrophic illness.
And I'm struggling with a thought. Because of today's instant news, especially bad news (about school shootings in particular), I wonder whether our young people are better or worse than we were at dealing with terrible events like this.
Back when I was in high school, a classmate died from some sudden illness (I don't recall what, right now). Somehow, the death of a person we knew, of our age, hit us all harder than losing a grandparent or older friend. (Among other things, we dedicated our senior yearbook to his memory.)
Our kids/young people today better prepared from seeing death and violence so often on the news? Or does the media coverage make it all somehow unreal – and therefore worse when it hits close to home? I sure don't know.