Wall St. Journal article:
"The Kids Are Home From College. And Parents Are Trying to Cope."
The adjustments are many. Parents, for instance, are grappling with the different schedules of their college-age kids, creating designated workspaces for everyone and allocating tasks to help out with household chores. Many have also been frustrated that their independent-minded children have returned home with childlike expectations of being served and pampered. And some are worried that their children might have been exposed to the coronavirus—and in turn are exposing the rest of the family to it.
“I was so frazzled with all the cooking, cleaning and laundry,” says Helene Wingens, of Livingston, N.J., whose sons Andrew and David have both returned home, one from Harvard Law School and the other from Tufts University. Another son, Jon, who works for Citibank, has also returned home.
“Our big worry now is if we have enough bandwidth on our Wi-Fi, and we have upgraded our speed on Optimum,” Ms. Seltzer says.
One thing parents don’t have to worry about: The rapidly evolving pandemic situation has halted almost all social interaction with people outside the family, so parents don’t have to set down rules about whom their children meet.
“There is no negotiation any longer on who children can meet or hang out with outside the house. At this time they cannot meet anyone.
Ms. Wingens’s sons have created a nightly meal plan for the family on Google docs. The family is also creating a collage called Corona2020 to record their memories of these times.
Dr. Ross, meanwhile, says she has instituted a candlelight dinner for the family every weekday night.
“My son’s eyeballs rolled the most when I suggested the dinner plan, but he has since been the most supportive family member,” she says.
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