Here's a scenario: JJ dates a girl, and they get intimate, but short of having sex. The girl feels JJ does something she doesn't like, and doesn't want to see him again. But, JJ over the next few days or a week, continues to call her, come to her place, whatever, basically ignoring her request that he stay away from her. Not a few of us have been in the same situation & thought we could patch things up. It's all up to the girl to decide she's had enough and take some kind of legal action, especially an easy thing to do these days, as women are fed up with men who won't take no for an answer. It could be the girl felt a threat from JJ, whether or not justified.
So, she files the TRO. This scenario is based on there being a period of time between the date and the filing of the TRO. Player some time ago, apparently looked at the TRO, which is a public document, I believe, and said no specific offense was specified. I think Florio inflated the situation by using the word, "rape," in her headline and used that word in all subsequent stories. Either Player is wrong, or Florio should be fired for journalistic excess, because both read the TRO. This is my impression.
But, I'm not after Florio. Like many on this board, I'm still parsing out what exactly it was that brought about the TRO and not a charge of rape. The girl filed the TRO, in my estimation, simply to stop JJ from what she felt was harassment, stalking, or whatever. IF this is what happened, then the TRO was not filed just for a bad date experience for the girl, but JJ's pestering her in the time between the date and her filing of the TRO.
This is a scenario only. I have no evidence; I haven't seen the TRO. Maybe she filed the TRO the next day. All I'm trying to do here is present an alternative view of why JJ is at fault, but not to the extent of felony rape. Now, the issue of what UM wants to do about his conduct is up to UM. It's unfortunate that the girl filed a TRO, but perhaps she had good reason to, IF AND ONLY IF JJ's conduct after the date caused her to fear for her safety, justifiably or not.