For the past 8 months I have been working 1 on 1 with a student that has very severe autism. He is non verbal and most of his communication come from repeating what people say to him and scripting movie lines, and is completely dependent on the people that work with him. At first I was very nervous and apprehensive, as most people are around him. But as I got to know him I realized what an amazing personality he has.
As our relationship has developed, he has learned to introduce himself to his peers, tell me when he is hungry, and answer many of the daily questions I ask him. It has been such an amazing experience! Sure we have our days when he is pissed about something and tries to fight me, but that is just his way of telling me that something is wrong. Sure he wakes up from his nap pitching a tent, but what normal guy doesn't?!
In just a few short weeks, I will find myself in a cap and gown walking him across the stage as he graduates. I've also come to realize that I may never see him again and I am frightened for what the future holds for him.
He is such an amazing kid with a great personality and a very caring heart. His abilities often get eclipsed by his disabilities and most people will never have the courage to really get to know him and understand him. Everyday I get closer to him and care more about him. We spend 8 hours a day together, side by side, hand in hand, and sometime fist to face.
I never thought I'd have the great opportunity of working with special needs kids.
If your still reading, I hope you have the opportunity to get to know a kid with special needs. While they may look different on the outside and act a little crazy at times, they are some of the sweetest most caring kids you'll ever meet. They have unique personalities just like you and I. They should all be treated just like any other kid.... Praised when they do something right and disciplined when they do something wrong.
I'll forever have a soft spot in my heart for the kid I have spent hundreds of hours with. I will always care about him like he's my own. I will do whatever I can to help him in the future. I will think about him daily. I hope the next person that works with him becomes as close of friends as we are. I hope the people around him have the courage to get to know him on a personal level. I hope he lives a happy life..... cuz I love this kid to death and I will truly miss him