Noches de Passion said:
UMGriz75 said:
argh! said:
i could just go ahead and be a self-righteous dick about the whole thing ...
You are.
UM, if you truly are who you say you are and not PlayerRep, I would advise you to be very careful in how you approach identifying and exposing this alleged victim. Your fact sheet is based on what Kirsten Pabst and Dave Paoli wrote in their motion to dismiss. That motion is no more factual than what Suzy Boylan wrote in her charging documents. All three are obligated to act with candor toward the court. You, UMGriz75, as a poster on Egriz, are not.
You are welcome to point out any factual reference I have made to the alleged victim, and point out where that reference was not made to something in the charging document, affidavits filed under her signature, and quotations made by specific reference to statements she made under oath in interviews.
As you noted, Suzy, Kirsten and Dave have obligations to the Court when they repeat those statements, which were all made under oath at one point or another by the same person: the alleged victim. And we are entitled to rely on that obligation of candor, even as one of the pointed claims in this case is the lack of that candor by Suzy Boylan. However, where the facts alleged by both parties are consistent, there cannot be a question.
And that's the clear problem here: a variety of contradictory statements, and acknowledged events before, during, and after the "evening" in question to which no credible alternative evidence has been offered that is different from the existing documented record.
Now, after an extensive identification of the admitted facts, very little of which is based on JJ's account, the benefit of any doubt has to go to JJ. However, in presenting those facts, they don't happen to add up reasonably to a very pretty picture. Yes, that's a problem sometimes with facts.
Now, intersecting with those facts are specific studies of abused people. The alleged victim's behaviors are consistent with those studies, even as her inconsistent statements are likewise consistent with someone fabricating a story. This is called "analysis."
You are free to point out where you disagree, but when you can't find a basis to factually disagree, a generic claim that is not factually based without being able to identify how is superficial at best.
If you have an explanation for a TRO affidavit made under oath, for instance, at the point in time that it was made, with no remote hint, even by the county attorney's view of things, that there was a basis for it, is that the behavior of a normal, honest person?
Particularly after SHE was the one who had made contact, complaining of her "humiliation?" I have interpreted it as dishonest and malicious because the available evidence points in that direction. If you have available evidence to suggest otherwise, let's hear it. Otherwise, simply admit you don't. And if you have contrary evidence for any other contention, let's hear it. If not, simply admit you don't. And if your whole reasoning is that you don't like where the available evidence leads, and you have nothing to suggest the contrary, then simply admit that you don't.
I do happen to think that when an adult female admits to breaking off boyfriend relationships "because of a relationship with JJ" knowing that the "relationship with JJ" didn't exist, there's a problem here, and it is psychological, and it does fit a pattern of similar such cases, for which this pattern is well established. "Normal" people don't do those things.