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My daughter’s first football injury

GrizGuy

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Ok, so this isn’t FCS or Griz, but that influenced the situation…so I’m starting a thread unrelated to anything. Haven’t done that in awhile...

My daughter surprised us a few weeks ago by proclaiming at dinner that she intended to join the new flag football team at her high school. This is a kid who, as much as she loves her dad, has no interest in sitting with me to watch football. Fly fishing or backpacking, she’ll race you to pack the car. But she just isn’t that into football other than watching highlights that I tell her she “has to see.”

Mom didn’t love this idea. And I chose not to appear too enthusiastic about her announcement because that is the kiss of death on her wanting to follow through. If Mom or Dad love an idea, she will run from it faster than an Olympic sprinter.

I should say Olympic 10K runner because she’s a natural high level distance runner, but totally refuses to run track or xc. I won’t go into the whole thing, but she was about 10 when she joined a soccer team and the moment she ran across the pitch to steal a ball, all the dads looked at me and said, “Woah, that kid’s a gazelle.” And of course I knew it, too.

And in rare athletic endeavors, she has shown she can go at a fast pace (mind you I’m 55 and can still drop a sub-6 mile or two during a long training run at 7:30 pce, so I have a concept of what’s faster or slower), and she can do it ALL DAY LONG. But any pushing, pleading or cajoling anyone did, only made her more stubborn about not becoming the amazing runner she is. So I have given up.

But I digress…

Nonetheless, I snuck off to get her cleats and receiver gloves so she would have some decent gear. And I was thrilled she wanted to play. She shrugged but thanked me. This kid, I tell ya, I could bring home a baseball signed by the Babe and she would say, “Hm. Neat, I suppose.” Ha.

Now this runner kid who’s built like a Kenyan marathoner has no business playing football, obviously. But it’s “non-contact,” flag football, so no big deal. I dutifully take her to practice, but she prefers that Mom and Dad not stay and watch. Harrumph, fine. I just listen to her post-game reports. She’s not a starter, which doesn’t surprise me. She’s just not a kid who’s gonna go out and scream and holler and show the world what she’s got, I guess. She just rotates in, mostly on defense, which she says she likes. Okay, sweetie, glad you’re having fun. Whatevs, as the kids say.

This week, she comes home from practice complaining about a thumb injury. It didn’t look like much, so I recommended ice/gentle compression and Tylenol and check it in the morning.

Morning comes, it hurts about the same, and she spills the entire story that she was defending a pass, and the WR pushed her, so she got pissed and shoved the wideout back and jumped to intercept the ball, both kids landing on the ground. In that landing process she hyperextended her thumb.

Ouch.

I told her she could skip practice until it healed.

She said, nah, can’t we tape it or something?

Lemme tell you, Griz Nation, that attitude made me one proud dad.

I asked her why risk further injury?

She says, well, she wants to play. Plus you’re always on about the Griz and the Steelers players you like because they play hurt sometimes, and this isn’t that bad.

Wowza, Griz Nation I couldn’t be happier about my daughter’s first football injury!
And I wanted to share with some folks who would get it.

Now, I just have to convince her to work on field goals so she can kick for the Griz in the 25-26 season as a freshman. I mean, she seems to have the attitude that Bobby might appreciate! ;-)

BTW, the pass play where she got hurt, the ball fell incomplete. Maybe someone should get her lifting weights with her attitude maybe she can become a defensive back…
 
Congratulations on your daughter finding a sport! Sounds like our daughters could be twins in regards to, if dad likes it, daughter doesn't!

My daughter finally found her sport too and I've had to try really hard not to be too pushy, which means showing an interest.
 
You’re giving yourself away. You can take the guy out of the storytelling; but you can’t take the storytelling out of the guy!

Good stuff.
 
Congrats to your daughter and you. This must be the Taylor Swift football effect. Ha.

My daughter, who did JV cheerleading, a couple years of tennis, and cross-country as a senior, in high school, decided to play rugby in college. I had taken her to the Hong Kong 7's rugby tournament her senior spring, the first of a dozen high school graduation presents. Ha. (I knew my wife would give me a trip pass for taking our daughter). She ended up being the first frosh to start for the varsity that fall, later became co-captain and MVP of her team, and played in a club national championship. Imagine how her mom felt seeing her in action for the first time, tackling, being tackled, throwing others down, and being at the bottom of piles. She's now retired from the Village Lions in NYC, but she did make a cameo appearance at the Maggotfest last spring. She also came with us to the Rugby World Cup in France for the month of September. In NYC, she once got stomped in a pile, which left a grid of cleat marks on her face. Bruises, indentations/holes, blood, scabs. I saw some photos of her in meetings and her nice work clothes, negotiating, as the injuries healed. Her Army Ranger rugby brother taught her how to punch (a close combat skill) and shoot every gun imaginable. He was the head of a sniper unit during his deployments to Iraq.
 
Excellent tale! We apparently don't have flag football here, but while waiting for the parking lot to clear after a Griz game a year or 2 back, our grand daughter took great pleasure in viciously attacking the tackling dummies at the River Bowl. I could only imagine the fun were she a boy! Thanks for sharing you story with us!!
 
THE BETCH said:
Good stories, good kids. Maybe there is hope for us yet.

Ankle surgery (scope), 2 ACL's (first one didn't hold), scope on shoulder, scope on knee. I suppose the ACL's will come back to haunt her. On spring tour at Cal, while still coming back from the ACL and being worked in slowly, she was inserted late when Cal was pressing on the goal line trying to come from behind. She made the game-saving tackle when the big Cal no. 8 picked up from a scrum and came weak side. My daughter tackled her and stopped her, and the ball went flying. Everyone heard the ACL pop. Game over. Spring season over.
 
My daughter's first sports injury was a torn rotator cuff from throwing hammer, her second was a cracked rib during a rugby game. That cracked rib was her 'badge of courage', and she was furious when the ER doctor told her she could not play in the rest of the tournament games that weekend.
 
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