So a girl can perform oral on a guy (not saying she did, just an example to "illustrate" my point) and then turn over and that fits the technical definition of rape if it proceeds to the male aggressively pursuing intercourse.
I would hope that a juror would at some point would entertain a "reasonable doubt" that this scenario is what lawmakers were after when they defined rape as a criminal act. Sex "without consent" was meant for much more clear cut situations where the notion of "no consent" is much more clearly defined.
It troubles me somewhat that the legal community is going along with the definition of what I would call "technical rape", that being two naked people in bed and a girl saying "no" at any point prior to intercourse and that conforming to the definition of rape.
I've had dates that didn't go anywhere and I've had dates that went somewhere. The one thing I recall where it didn't go to the desired happy ending the girl was much more up front about it early on in the evening, clearly letting me know that "you're not getting anything tonight". It seems that human nature has to prevail at some point - there is a law of nature involved here between man and woman and when a woman doesn't want sex, she makes it known in much stronger and more unequivocal terms, and that is just how a girl handles it. Any girl that doesn't clearly establish her boundaries early on, knows that she can expect trouble with an aroused male.
Lord help the legal system if we start entertaining rape cases on such thin technical grounds.