EverettGriz said:
Gametime, let's say for the sake of argument that we capitulate to JJ being an ass in this particular situation.
So, two questions for you:
1. Would you also agree that the Accuser is an ass? Because from the sounds of it, she certainly treats her ex-boyfriend like shit. Sounds as though she's using him, BAD.
2. When was the last time a college kid made a poor choice when it comes to sex? Hmmm, you may have to go deep into the archives to find another example of that.... :roll: Should we just write off every kid who makes a bad decision in college in order to get some? If so, colleges and universities are gonna be pretty empty places.
1. I agree the accuser is a manipulative girl, seeking attention. She is seeking attention, not from the public however, but rather playing the victim card with friends and family as she was lost and lonely. She likely fabricated a story because she was hurt. That makes her an "ass" as you stated or whatever else you want to call her. I am not defending her reprehensible behavior in any way.
2. It probably happened last night, tonight and will happen tomorrow. No we shouldn't. But when you have arguably the highest profile student athlete at the University that has many potential "sharks" in the waters circling. He better be careful with his actions. I would hope that he would make better decisions, more mature decisions. Even in the athlete hierarchy, he is at the top. He is supposed to be a leader that makes the right decisions. I don't want the President of my company getting drunk and running around naked in the street, or having stupid meaningless sex at the drop of a hat. Character is what this is about. There are approximately 15,000 students at the UM, only 1 of them is the starting Quarterback of the highest profile sport on campus. He is expected, not only as a student, an athlete and a person to make better decisions than anyone else. Right or wrong he is a role model and a public representative of the University. He should have acted like it. I demand a lot of leaders, whether they are 19 or 59. He failed miserably. Harsh I know, but if he was acting this way, then why would the rest of the team or students feel they should act any differently. This notion that if everyone is doing it, then it is ok, is a dangerous concept. Lead by example, and others will follow. Lead by mistake and others will flounder.